Wednesday, November 23, 2005

Anger management

It was a lousy movie. However, David said one thing that is true:"I am angry, most of the time about myself, to let others treat me like trash without standing up for myself". I am doing the opposite: like what JESSICA SIMPSON and NICK LACHEY said to the media, that sometimes strong personalities can get in the way of marital negotiations. "There's people with pride involved," she says. "You have to back down sometime -- just a little bit." I guess it's more than must marital negotiations, it's about everything.

I am not built for my job, which requires endless compromise. My pride stands in the way, eventually for good. I need to get the hella this sucky job and do what I was born to do.

Widi, the middle aged mellow Indonisian Chinese guy who works as production supervisor by putting 70 hours a week, is the perfect example of people who stopped imagination and started to compromise. But what can he do: without a social network and good communication skill, with two school aged kids to raise and a wife working as an accountant, compromising is the only choice.

Lesson learned: do what you love to do and have to do, do not waste anytime.

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